A friend of mine told me he wouldn't feel that comfortable going out with a big girl because, even if he liked her, he would feel like other men would judge. He said men don't like thinking that way because they would obviously love their gf but deep down they want to have a gorgeous looking slim woman on their arm and want other guys to be jealous of them.
Is there any truth in this guys? Any girls ever felt this way with a guy?
Perhaps insecure men would agonize about the opinions of other males.
I, fortunately, am not one of those guys. Admittedly, my woman packed on a few pounds during her pregnancy and thus she carried the extra weight a bit after. But then again, so what! Who cares! That did not stop me from adoring her.
Even if she hadn't lost the weight, I simply do not care about how hypothetically unattractive she may have been to other males. Those guys don't take care of her, they don't lay next to her, and they have not experienced her greatness.
As I mentioned on another post, if a guy seems embarrassed to be seen with a woman or to acknowledge her, then she is not the woman for him. Period!
I don't want to comment on other men but If I like her then I'm perfectly comfortable going out with her.
I don't care about those who are below the line judging - cause those who judge on sight are lowly & below the line as far as I'm concerned and if they comment or come at us, I do just the same with them as I'd do to a stray dog that comes to bite me ;) no words - only actions :D
There are many guys out there who adore larger girls, you'll be surprised with the number of such males :)
Yes and I think it works both ways. My boyfriend is really attractive, very fit, outgoing and gets all the ladies and so I feel like an ugly fat tramp next to him and I sometimes feel like I'm judged for it. I always feel like people think, "how the hell did she get him? He could do better!" but that's evidently my own insecurities coming though.