So I live in grad house with 6 people, two gals, one is hopelessly single. She just can't get a guy.
Now, shy personality quirks aside, she just doesn't seem that attractive.
But here's the thing, I've lived with her long enough to know that she is in fact quite good looking. she's very fit, has nice curves, and has a pleasant face.
The thing is, though, she just can't seem to dress in clothes that flatter her, she sucks at wearing makeup, and just seems to look even worse when she "makes an effort"! I blame the fact that she went to an all girls school for undergrad, so went 4 years without trying to impress guys or whatever.
Its just a bummer for her because she is just shooting herself in the foot at every opportunity! I'd like to help her as a friend. I'm not trying to get in her pants, I want her to find someone who wants to get into them.
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How is it that some pretty girls don't know how to be pretty?
In my opinion it's probably because those gals bought the bs that guys like gals without makeup or that guys like gals better without makeup without realizing it likely really means guys like attractive gals who look attractive without makeup. I find heterosexual gals who 'don't know how to be pretty' have failed in my opinion at realizing how superficial/shallow heterosexual males are and that to attract a guy a gal generally has to look her 'best possible' akin to idealized glamour gals.1
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