So, I'm a 5'7" tall girl who likes wearing heels. They make me feel feminine and fun.
My boyfriend is 5'10", so when I wear them, I'm sometimes his height but usually a bit taller.
I was out recently and his friend came to talk to us (who's probably about 6') and said, "geez how tall ARE you?" When I told him he just shook his head and my boyfriend laughed and said, "I know man how do you think I feel? I'm only 5'10""
It made me feel awkward and like I shouldn't have been wearing them. I know my boyfriend likes the way I look in them and never says that I should wear them, but I felt like I was making them insecure.
So what do you guys think? Girls: ever been in this situation?
He is still taller than you when your in regular shoes and your only probably a inch taller in heels so he shouldn't be insecure, also I think it was just a light hearted joke so I wouldn't worry too much.
Voted B. She'd have to be pretty damn tall, and I'd rather she not be taller than men in heels, but if she's that tall, she's that hall, and I'd rather her wear heels and look tall and smoking then have her not wear them and look marginally less tall and hot.
Can't say I would care. I wouldn't like if my gf was taller than me without heels but other than that it doesn't matter. I've never been into girls wearing heels anyway. It looks nice but feels kinda unnatural.
I share the same thing with you as I wear killer high heels all the time and some are 6" tall so I'm a speck taller than my BF but he is a very confident individual and love seeing me in heels anyways. He would rather look up to me in heels than down at me in flats.
the guy im dating is shorter than me and i wear heels around him.. maybe he was just trying to be cool around his friends as like a joke? i would ask him casually do u feel uncomfortable with me in heels next time ur with him getting ready to go out or something
I am in this situation but its gotten better for me cause my bf has gotten and is getting taller lol He PREFERS me to be shorter but he doesn't mind me wearing heels as long as im not taller and am the same height or once in a while, like he doesn't love it but he doesn't say I can't wear them either lol (oh im 5'5 btw)
I wear shorter shoes with shorter guys, personally. It diminishes my attraction to look down at a guy.
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