my boyfriend is always away
3 months in HongKong
and then got back home for 20 days and now he is in the USA
to me this is almost not a relation
cause in so many ways it's!
it just hurts me a lot to feel un cared about or ignored for this much!
we had been together for 3 years now and it's always like this.. him going away to other countries for business while I stay in my country to finish my study
iam wondering what can I do mean while!
sure some peoplee would say leave him .. find some other man who buys for me roses and takes me to movies and other places!
but although I wish sooooo much to have a boyfriend like that
but I would never replace my man!
i love him
and he loves me too
it's just our life styles that makes me so sad and angry and all the bad emotions in the world
would any one know what can I do to keep my hopes up?
or know actually what to do mean while?
it's not like i am just gonna set and wait for him .. I wanna have a life too
how do I do that?
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds like he needs to do some maintenance. Do you think there is any chance he is "sampling" while he is away? I know your needs are different from his, but my guess is his needs are being met and he is not meeting yours. He needs to know your expectations, and if he can not/will not attempt to fill your needs, then it is time to re-evaluate the relationship.
You say you would never leave him. Never is a big statement. I am guessing there is some condition in which you would decide to move on. Think about those reasons and see how far away you are from that "line in the sand".
If you decide you are going to put up with what you are getting, then keep yourself busy with school and other aspects of your life. Time usually fixes all problems; either making better, or worse and therefore making it easier to decide to find someone else.