I take my guy friend shopping bc he wants my opinion but he won't try on anything that's out of his style boundaries which consist of a polo shirt , cargos, and ugly sneakers. I try to dress him up more modern and we bought some things that help his game but he won't wear it bc he thinks that it's to flashy. It not. He's so concerned about being looked at and it's not like we bought a neon tank and matching shoes all we bought was a nice flannel and pants that look good on him. All he says is he wants To blend in to the walls and I said you can still blend without looking like a forty year old soccer dad! Are any of you guys really stubborn with what you wear? Also how can I make him more confident so that he will be comfortable whit dressing his age and looking dateable for once?
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Men and women are fundamentally different when it comes to clothes.
For women, clothes are like decorative objects that can be switched for another day by day. Like, "I want to look like whats-her-name today, then tomorrow, I'm going to look like that-other-girl, and then..."
For guys, clothes are more permanent and are intended to reflect his identity. Like, "This is WHO I AM today, then tomorrow, this is still WHO I AM, and then..."
Trying to get a guy to fundamentally change his fashion sense is like trying to get a gay guy to put away the rainbow stickers. Good luck, because you're going to need it.0