First off I'm not conservative and I'm not a controlling person at all, but my girlfriend was at the beach today and she sent me a picture of her laying down and lets just say there was a lot on display, a lot of cleavage and she was soaked in sweat and she looked very enticing. I like it when she looks like that but part of me feels like, is that for everyone's eyes? I mean why do girls not want people to see them in a bra when a bikini shows off just as much? I never thought I'd feel this way, but I did get a sort of pit in my stomach when I saw her. I think I am being a bit much and I'd never bring it up with her but I do think they are immodest and that if you're with someone that certain things should be for your partner's eyes only.
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Wearing a bikini is a sign of confidence. There are girls who go to the beach who wear bikinis that probably shouldn't, but you know what? I respect them and their courage. I still feel uncomfortable wearing a bikini. I'm fit as hell, but I still look in the mirror and see all the fat I used to have. If I had the courage to be comfortable with my body when I was overweight I'd probably have been happier.
Anyway, the morale of this story is as follows: You shouldn't be concerned at all. You should be proud, and respect her desires flaunt her body.
Believe in her. Even if all the guys stare, she's still yours at the end of the day, and that's what you have to tell yourself.1