My ex was gorgeous and I've always had great looking girlfriends. I know looks are less important than personality. I know there is beautiful girls with great personalities out there too. I just don't want to date a girl and not be fully be attracted to her. :/ help please! I don't want to feel like I've downgraded. And not in not shallow.
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I think it isn't wrong as long as you also match those standards. Can't be an unattractive man and demand a super attractive woman. Not that you are unattractive :) My point is that you need to offer the same things for the other person. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You can be the hottest man in her eyes, it's all about how each person sees you. I get you, because yes, personality is important, but in the end, we don't fall in love with personality at first sight... physical attraction plays a big role too. After that, personality takes more over.2