I wouldn't call myself "Hot" but I'm definitely not "Ugly" either. I don't worry about that. I do care about how I look but I take care of it for myself. I don't care what others think. I learned that it's more important for me to be happy with how I look.
honestly, I think both. Sometimes I look at myself and think "goddam I'm handsome as fuck...". Other times I look at myself and think "wtf... how can any woman want this shit?"
I will say this. I know I have the potential to be hot. I have a handsome face, but I am overweight. Back when I was in much better shape, I was "hot". But now that I've had a few too many cheesesteaks, I'm not as hot as I was. And yes, I know the face is (usually) most important to girls/women. But now it's covered in fat! Essentially, if i got back in good shape, no doubt I'd consider myself hot.
I don't really know that, it's hard to look in a mirror and say one way or the other when seeing a person so close generally makes them less attractive than seeing that person from a bit greater distance. Also, people see other people from different angles and in different environments. I may think that a woman I see around all the time at an office, who may have various expressions and movements and moods, is beautiful, and when she goes home and looks in the mirror she thinks she is ugly.
I don't think it's arrogant for a person to acknowledge that he or she is attractive, but people who bring it up as a point usually are insecure about it and what that quality to be validated by someone else. The people who does that may have some awareness that he o she is physically attractive, but can't get himself/herself to believe it; if a single person calls him or her ugly, that comment has more weight than five people saying he/she is beautiful.
I see myself as just a average guy looks wise I have been told by women though that I am pretty attractive so who knows. But there will always be people who find you really attractive and some that don't just life so I guess I don't really care all that much.
I would say I am hot but also don't care when I get said oppsite by random hoties. I normaly don't like to say I'm hot but most of the times I hunt for girls this is what I need to say to get the needed confidence up that girls 'find hot'. I would say I could get any type of girl but saiing this puts me on a bad light.
Hot? I am more on the cute side I think. But I am content with myself. I wish everyone was. We would live in a better world if everyone accepted themselves. I honestly believe that a lot of problems are caused by low self-esteem.
I'm getting to the point of not caring because it seems those who concentrate too much on looks - because there has to be some physical appeal initially - are also idiots themselves. If someone likes your personality too, they'll find you better looking anyway. So it's all good!
I am not hot. I am an extremely ugly woman. People have been telling me that since I was 12 years old. Men always reject me, and they tell me it's because I am very ugly. So I know I am not hot. It would be living in a fantasy world to consider myself hot.
I don't really care for physically classifying myself, in my opinion the body is nothing but an organic, temporary vessel for the soul. But I love myself, and all I need to know is that I truly would rather be myself than anyone else.
I try not to think about my appearance a lot. I pride myself on being a good person which is a lot more important. When it comes to looks, I don't think I'm a Victoria's Secret model but I'm certainly not horrible to look at either.