okay so I am 21 and I have never had a date or girlfriend etc. I never receive any compliments or attention from the opposite sex. The only people that call me cute or handsome are my family members, but I feel like they are just being nice.
I have posted in something called a "rate thread" before where people rate each other's attractiveness on a scale of 1-10 and I received pretty negative feedback from the girls. People say that I look gay or really young, and while I don't think that I am conventionally ugly, I feel like girls still find me unattractive or unnoticable, like I'm the kind of guy that girls don't really want. Is there any way that I can look a bit better and more attractive? Taking any and all advice and tips for improvement. Thanks.
You are very cute... in fact you look just like a young Keanu Reeves (a movie star) and maybe Justin Long... hmmmmmm.. You shouldn't take pictures with a pale face against a pasty green wall and not smile. It makes look sad when you don't even smile or have any color in your skin. If that is how you want to project yourself, then nobody will want to date you because they will think it would be a sad sullen time. And let's face it girls want guys who smile and joke have interests and have fun. Not sullen contstantly asking about themselves. I've seen you on here many times. If you spent as much time outslide, having fun or helping others you'd be a much more well rounded person instead of hiding out in your room asking for advise. You will never ever get anywhere doing this I promise you, so please stop. As a girl, I would go out with you in a second for the looks department but your constant asking and desperation creeps me out. Do you have any interests. You should like join the gym or a hiking or ski club or something like that. Get a job working around people you can have fun with or go to college. You look young and adorable.. there's a girl for you, but you have to fix your mental problems first. That's my honest advise. Life is too short to keep asking the same things over and over again from your room. :)
You aren't ugly, you're cute and that is very attractive to some girls, I find my fiance unbelievably cute and it drives me insane cos I love it haha :) those girls who called you ugly are clearly shallow minded and childish who want all guys to look like Channing Tatum or Brad Pitt! You shouldn't change your looks because of what those girls said. They're idiots and not the right kind of girls for you! There's a girl out there for every guy and you'll find the girl for you :) work on being more confident in yourself and that will make all the difference. I hope you find a nice girl who will make you feel good about yourself :)
You're pretty handsome, so I can't really come up with any ways to improve your appearance. I'm 27 years old, so yes, you look very young FOR ME, but you look perfectly fine for your age. If you haven't been lucky with the ladies, that's maybe due to other factors. I don't know you or the girls you interact with, so I have no idea what it could be..
Typical/universal improvement tips are: - Physical activity (I don't mean going to the gym, I mean making sure you're doing done sort of physical activity or exercise at least 30 mins a day) - Drink water - Fiber!!! Eat your fruits and veggies (raw)!! If you notice people who've been juicing and getting their right amount of fiber, how they seem to practically glow.
I don't think your ugly, by far :) your boyish (yeah cute but in a very positive way ;) ). Improving your appearance hmm... I would say grow your hair out a bit more ( like this perhaps www.google.be/search ) (there are only a select group of guys that can really rock short hair), make sure you don't stink :p but not overly cologne or shit either. Wear simple but stylish clothes.
you are actually really good looking, you have the whole drummer vibe going onlol
People should care about your personality more than your looks. Come one people exterior shouldn't matter. The connection you have with someone shouldn't be based about image it should be based apps a deep rotted connection you have with that person. Honestly looks only get you so far in life the other percent or it is personality how smart you are and loy/loving you are.