How much do looks matter to girls. I don't think that I am the most attractive guy in the world so when it comes to just going up and talking to some girl I like or just a random girl on the street I can never get the nerve to go up and have a conversation with them because I think there just reject me or judge me on how look and not what any thing to do with me. If a unattractive guy gos up to a girl and starts to talk to her do girls mind that, I mean will most girls give him a chance or will they just shoot him down because of how he looks? And if most girls are ok with this can they get over how he looks and go farther then being friends.
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its not about looks, its about confidence (in you) and attraction (between you and a potential girl).
i met 2 guys my first year of college, they were both friends too. I initially noticed one of the guys was hotter than the other...he was over 6 feet, muscles, charming, cute, perfect smile, dressed in armani...he had the whole ensemble going on...and I couldn't resist but make him my eye candy and flirt bud! The other guy was a bit under 6 feet, shorter, no muscles...kinda thin...wore plain shirts with old jeans...didnt shave sometimes...put a little effort in his looks...i just thought he was all right...
as I got to know both of them hanging out during classes and stuff...i realized the short dude was so much more confident then the taller one! he was so outgoing...had a funny personality...he knew when to have serious conversations and when to have funny ones...he was smart...knew when to seperate study time and then flirting with girl time...he knew how to prioritze...hes a family guy and loves kids...and pets! He didn't care AT ALL what people thought of him or how many girls he could get. He was happy...being himself. The taller guy had girls all over him 24/7...he would flirt with each and everyone of them...he didn't study too much and would be obsessed with video games, sports, girls, girls, and more girls...and there wasn't anything more than that to him..ya know? so I just got turned off because he was so typical and immature...he was just being a guy and not a man.
The shorter less good looking guy was a MAN, he was sexy, he had ambition, he had goals, he has a hot car, (the taller one had a gay asss car from some junk yard) he works, he studies, he doesn't hit on every girl that moves, but he's still social and friendly, and has a few close best friends and buds...he loves his family...hes the guy I always wanted! so simple and yet awesome! The more I got to know him the crazier I got...and the taller guy...i didn't even remember his name anymore! pffffft...
so yea...i hope you learn something from my story...its never about looks. Looks isn't everything...it can help with the initial attraction phase...but its not important/enough for the long run. Being who you are and being confident is what it's all about.
I still love this guy...but he never officially asked me out and he's not dating anyone right now...i guess because he just wants to study and focus to career. But I love him and everything about him and hope all his hard work pays off and his wishes come true. =)0