There is this guy I like. He's average looking but pretty popular on our campus. He is really funny and is actually friends with mostly pretty girls. I spent a lot of time with him the past semester, and he showed me that he was a great personality and a soft side. He actually has a girlfriend though, that goes to another nearby college. She's not that attractive looking, but we never really talked about her and he ALWAYS made sure that never met her. (he walked right past me a couple times and didn't even acknowledge me when she was with him) I was thinking about telling him I have feelings for him, cause I feel that he has some for me (through various things that he's said/done) Do you think he would be afraid to go out with me? I'm not trying to sound arrogant, but I work at a modeling camp - just for perspective.
Is this even a valid fear or I am just overanalyzing?
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I would have to say yes. Guys have a tendency to put pretty girls on an unreachable pedestal but this is no problem if the woman shows the initiative and gives clear signs of her intent.
ON THE OTHER HAND this guy has a girlfriend. You have already admitted you know very little about their relationship and unless you find out she's cheating him, beating him, or otherwise being abusive its your role as his friend to stay out of it and not ruin it for him with the girl that for all you know he could be getting married to.3