Ok I never can date ever b.c. my expectations are so high, how can I make myself give a guy a chance that I am not that much attracted to but then they have a really good personality and they are easy to talk to. does everyone meet their significant other and is attracted to them right away, or you date them for a while and than realize you want to go out with them? I don't know the cute ones are always wrong for me b.c. the way they act a little too pushy and just self absorbed. the ones I get along with I am not attracted to ah help
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i don't know how you meet your significant other. sorry.
honestly, I am really disappointed for what I have done in the past. there are some really great catches I have let down, and for various reasons. they were all pretty good friends, and kind to me in stuff.
in one scenario, two guys liked me. and they were best friends. I couldn't go out with one cause it would mess up the other.
so I told one... that if he wanted to go out with me, he would have to ask out a guy and put it on youtube. hecka mean (me). and the other was too scared to do anything.
i feel bad. they're actually good looking but at the time, I was too busy looking at some asshole I thought was pretty hot.
im going to say, although we, as girls with high standards, may not chase after the right guy at times (many times) we will just have to learn from our mistakes!
-Sending the love
i have found that the guys who didn't meet my expectations in the past, have gotten much cuter and still have great personalities in the present. and more girls flock to them. but there are a few without as much luck in love still ^_^
soo... stay friends with those guys you thought weren't as good looking because they will still be kind in the future and a lot sweeter than those hot assholes.
hang on to those friendships! I hope I make sense!0