Say you see a guy sitting down on his laptop in a cafe or coffee shop. Is there anything he can wear to make himself more approachable for you to sit down near him? Should he show off muscle or would that be intimidating to you?
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Most Helpful Girl
Smile. As a psych major, I've found this is the best way to be more approachable. Look happy, and be confident. Make eye contact with a girl you see in a coffee shop, and when she looks away and giggles, thats a sign she's into you, or she's a little shy (which is a good sign). Then approach her, ask if you can join her and that you were looking for some company while you do your school work. 8 times out of 10 this will work, and if it doesn't, just keep trying. Be the one to approach, but do not be creepy about it. Smile and don't put on a creepy stalker face, I had guys who tried this when they were trying to look all serious and mysterious, it frightened a lot of girls. Just be your best happiest self and be the one to approach :)1