1. He has to make me laugh - even if I'm the only one who gets his jokes, he has to make me smile and be able to laugh at himself as well. A great sense of humor is KEY
2. He has to be openminded. He shouldn't be really conservative. Nice, open-to-opinion guy is awesome. I don't like 'know it all's and people who are 'it's my way or the highway'
3. He has to be my friend. I don't want to just be some hot piece of ass to him and I don't want him to think I can't hang with his buddies because I'm his gf. We have to be able to just play a game of pool one day and then have a romantic evening the next. I can't constantly stay in a 'couple' mode. I have to feel comfortable around him, be able to talk with him about anything, and trust him - all good friendship qualities.
Personality/chemistry-We HAVE to get along, enjoy each others company, like each other in general, hopefully friends, have personalities that work together.
Common interests/goals-Have common interests so you aren't totally bored by each others great date ideas, having goals in general- It shows the guy has a little passion.
Self-esteem-Be yourself, don't be cocky, be nice and polite, but DON'T let people walk all over you, don't sweat the small stuff and don't stress about things to much in my presence, You have to look like you got everything together!
Ok 3 is kinda hard to pick but if its only 3 then its gotta be these:
1. Funny/Good sense of humour- He's got to be able to make me laugh or at least find things funny and be someone that your able to have a good time and have a laugh with.
2.Good looking- Ok it might seem kind of shallow saying good looking but I think its true, people do judge people on looks and when you first meet someone it is generally their looks that get you. I don't meen they have to be the hottest guy ever but they need to have something about them that catches my eye. For example, their eyes, hair, smile, build, face, anyone of those is perfect to catch my eye.
3.Trustworthy- Trust is a must for me. I think a relationship is built on trust and a guy has to be able to keep and secret and you have to be able to trust him especially if you want to move on in a relationship a guy definately has to be trustworthy.
I think that it's important to have a connection of course...being able to communicate..of course confidence and humor is very important in a guy and just being who he is.. and girls LOVE romantic guys! :)