I don't get it. Some people say that if a guy/girl feels like s/he is not good enough for the partner no matter what, then they wouldn't date that person. Usually people like this are the ones that were teased at school or just don't feel comfortable with the way they look. Hence they don't feel comfortable being in attention, why is not wanting attention that unattractive? So you prefer an ugly person who always want to be in the center of attention?
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People who don't want attention on them don't necessarily have low self-esteem. That's not what makes a person unattractive. When you compliment someone and they don't believe you no matter how many times you tell them it's true; when they don't see their own self-worth; when they don't even understand why you like them, they become less attractive. It's frustrating and difficult to be with someone like that.3