over feeling that you didn't care about him as much as he cared for you and that he had enough of giving everything and getting nothing in return, would he still be in love with you? he said he really did but I hurt him as I never said it or showed it over two years. we've been broken up for a few months now but have been really close and 6 weeks later I told him I loved him, he got so angry I had waited till after we broke up and he said I had forced him to take his love back. he had never ever treated me less than a queen :( he's not seeing anyone else, still won't call another girl pretty, and it's pretty clear that if I started flirting with someone that would be it between us, like how we were when we together. but he says he's not ready for a relationship. I know when guys say that as an excuse to mess around and be free, but he doesn't do much but work and see his friends from time to time. he's always careful so I don't think he only wants me for one thing and gets really upset if I ever joke about him wanting me physically. I don't know, everyone tells me that he's such a decent guy, and he had never ever hurt me when we were together. but I don't want to end up as one of these naive girls who gets played. that's my biggest fear. I can't even take time out and think because he contacts me every day. he does care about me, my family, my health, my education etc he's really protective of me, but he still isn't ready to be with me? Do you think he'll ever be ready? Also I think it's important to add that he doesn't want any of our mutual friends to know about us although he's physical and romantic in front of my best friends. I just don't know what to think! I trust him, I just don't trust my judgment.
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You kinda screwed up. Some people just are not good fits for others. I dated my best friend for a year, and I am a very physical style of boyfriend, I love holding hands, and cuddling, and sleeping together. She did not like any of that. Therefore, we were not a good fit. It sucks, but it is what it is.
It sounds like right now he needs someone that is more positive about him and is more open with how much they care about him. That is obviously not you. Do not try to be someone you are not. I would be irate if I were him and you waited two years to tell me you loved me after we broke up. How could you do something like that? That's awful, especially in light of what he told you.
You guys broke up. You are not together. You are not dating. Sounds like it's time to move on. Start by not spending a ton of time with him. Use this as a learning experience and move forward.
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