Do u ever wish you were the opposite gender?

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Ok im a guy, but sometimes i just wish i could be a pretty girl. I feel as though i relate more to women, and sometimes when i feel like this, i will dress up like a girl, cause i want to feel pretty soo bad. And for  Halloween  im dressing up like Avril Lavigne in her Hello Kitty music video. The pic is in my profile pic, Avril is the girl in the black dress. When i drsss up i tend to go all out as a girl. Please help, am I weird? And does anyone else ever wish they were the opposite gender?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

honestly? yes :(
i hate to admit it

but why in the world would you want to be a girl? males are the privileged ones !
do you think being a girl is just about clothes? no no. its also about fighting for basic human rights and not get taken seriously and also blamed if you get raped (i could go on for days!) did i mention that heartbreak is more severe for a girl? being so emotional and not having someone who understands? getting manipulated and when you start getting defensive people call you names instead of just understand you are just scared ! because a lot of guys only want one thing and they dont care if the girl falls in love with them and then get dumped?
should i remind you that A LOT of people see you as a piece of meat? ( the stuff above didn't happen to me personally, at least not all of them... but i was molested as a kid, younger than 4 years old)

maybe you are just gay, maybe you are just going through that phase where you are a little confused about your sexuality but trust me being a girl is not the best thing, it has goo sides to it sure, but its just so much easier being a guy

Prettygurl12 · Accepted Answer

Sometimes. A lot when I was little. I was raised as a major tomboy by my parents. You can imagine my surprise when I was told for the first time in school that I was a girl so I couldn't do something. I was like dafuq you talking about? Of COURSE I can do that! And there was the time when my grandmother came to town and was like, "You need a dress. Girls wear dresses." And I was like, "Dresses literally serve no purpose. They're not functional and they inhibit my ability to play basketball." and she was like. "Girls don't play basketball. That's a BOY sport." Hahahaha we did not get along for many many years.

My parents didn't raise me AS a girl. They raised me as female, but not as a girl. If that makes sense. They made sure that I knew what parts I had and what bathroom to use and everything but there were no attempts to dress me feminine or dictate what I could or could not do on the basis of my gender. So I guess I had my boy time as a kid.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I do sometimes but only for one reason... Don't get me wrong being a girl is tops!

But I want to be a guy so I can see what sex is like with a penis (awkward silence). Then again I should probably know what sex is like using my vagina first.

Are you weird for doing this? If you want to be a girl then you want to be a girl and that perfectly understandable. But if you're doing all of this and you don't really have a reaosn then it is kinda weird.

I think you're okay woth being a guy and you won't go that extra mile of changing your sex and you're satisfied with being born a male but you wish you were born a girl and prefer that yiu are one.

jarofhearts · Accepted Answer

Sometimes I wish I was a guy so I don't have to deal with all the girl bs but then again I like dressing up and being pretty sometimes

sovetskii13 · Accepted Answer

No. Of course there are some things that are better when being a woman but overall I prefer being a man. More opportunities in jobs and other things since people call this a "Man's World". I am for equality though. Anyway, I don't want so much pressure on my looks and personality from the media. I don't want to have periods every month, become pregnant, or give birth. I do find it incredible how women can handle those things. Not sure if I could.

Orion1084 · Accepted Answer

I think it would be interesting for, like, a day. I most definitely would not want to be female permanently. There's absolutely nothing wrong with women, obviously, it's just that I'm glad I'm male.

Like I said, though, it would be interesting to see how the other side lives for day. I couldn't imagine having sex with a guy, though (yuck!), so I'd probably just hit on some of my lesbian friends, lol.

Vampires · Answer

Yes, I wish I was a Girl. Mainly cause I had a traumatic experience with my testicles, they literally almost die cause they flipped over and the arteries and veins were blocked, I needed an operation. I also feel girls are way more attractive than males. Males take too much shit over their physical body, like I am underweight due to my food allergies and I am quiet short so getting girls to talk to me is impossible. Also the genetics for males in my family are horrible, my sisters are hell attractive but I am just ugly as shit. Yes sure periods are a problem I won't denied that. There a chance to get rape as a female, but with the life style I follow I doubt that would happen (I am usually at home, never leave alone at night, not a party person), also males can get rape as well.

Loner95 · Answer

Not in a million years would I wish to be something other than what I was created to be. There's something severely wrong with any male who wishes to be a female, and vice versa. You were born with the privilege of having a penis and being able to stick it inside vaginas, yet you'd rather have periods every month and have to sit down to urinate? Weird isn't quite the word to describe you, you're an abomination.

gotc147 · Answer

I've wondered what it would be like, given the opportunity I'd do a temporary "test drive" assuming I'd be an attractive girl, though I don't wish I was a girl permenantly.

CuriousCatbug · Answer

I used to ^_^  get a little lady envy i guess lol just to see life from that side i guess

ÉlanVital · Answer

neverrrrrr. Im happy being a guy. I love the idea of getting with girls. The spark wouldn't be the same if i were a girl and lesbian. Parts simply dont match and the magic of love isn't as mystical.

BatDoc · Answer

Oh, man, if I were born a woman, I would be unstoppable. I'm glad I'm a man, but there are times where I think of how much easier some things would be if I were a woman.

Klaatu51 · Answer

although i'm effeminate and submissive i wouldn't want to have a vagina

Mgoods · Answer

I used to, like between the ages of 18-19. Then I got over it.

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes, truth be told. Or actually, kinda a lot, but never to the the point of action. People tend to find this a touchy subject. Thanks to society being like that I've fallen into the "Fluid" category.

lovetoclegs · Answer

Yes I wish I was a girl so I could wear mini skirts and high heels

Gucci01 · Answer

Sometimes, I think I would be a very attractive man and probably more lucky than I am as a woman.

Anonymous · Answer

The only time I do is when the thought of having to always take the god damn lead, being assertive all the time bothers me

Anonymous · Answer

i ALWAYS wish that i will wakeup and find myself a guy.. IF I WERE A boy.. i'd live my life and do everything that i want because guys have a lot of freedom and bravery

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes, but I love being my gender too much to hate it to the point of cutting off my gentials and turning into a man.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, always, I want to be a dude. It's so awful to be in the wrong body.

decemberxblue · Answer

Nope. In my opinion, there's no life harder than the life of a man. I like it that way.

RandomR · Answer

Yhupp once a month...

skittles123 · Answer

Go get a sex change  Is a sex change wrong in my opinion YES!

Jerusha · Answer

I wish I was a cat. wether male or female

pr3ttybr0wn · Answer

no never even crossed my mind

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