what kind of things do you look for in a guy? and what kinds of things turn you off?
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I look for, honesty, being able to be upfront about his intentions (courageous), good integrity, acts respectful to me and others (and it isn't a show, it is how he was raised and that he knows how to be nice), he looks out for me and knows what I like, he pays attention to things about me and responds to those things, and he makes me laugh :)
Those are the top things I look for and enjoy (and turn me on). If we are talking purely sexual here then I look for my type of a hot bod ( I like either tall skinny guys, or athletic types of any height) and a guy who can have good stimulating conversations (turns me on a lot!)! Of course a nice smile too.
What are turn offs: In no particular order... guys who swear too much (or are vulgar, like say cun* or call other guys puss*), even though I swear sometimes, but not like that, also, no smoking or drugs (yuck), I hate to admit it, but it is a turn off to me when a guy drives a complete pile of junk. If you can't afford much of a car, at least go with something like an older volvo or subaru (with some ski racks), etc. My last boyfriend drove a horrible car, I rarely rode in it. I drove most of the time.
More turn offs: when a guy invites me out, then asks me to pay half (loser). Yellow teeth... yuk. Oh.. guys who wear too much cologne... or even just wearing the wrong kind (I prefer no cologne... I would rather smell his body than some crappy scent). OK, well, I will stop there, because I could probably find a lot of these little, but gross things.
The obvious are... abusers, cheaters, liars, etc.