Is this even humanly possible? I'm not talking about a quick glance or even saying another girl is pretty, but is there anything that prevents a guy from looking at another girl the SAME WAY he looks at his girlfriend?
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The guy's personality comes into play a lot for this. I know when I was dating my last girlfriend, I didn't care much at all about other women. I was nice to them and wouldn't ignore them, but I didn't flirt or even stare at them- I didn't need to.
I've been told I have the great ability to detach from myself and think about situations through the eyes of others, so maybe I am an exception to this rule that guys like to wander. I know I'd be upset if someone I was dating liked to flirt or check out other options, so I believe it would be unfair of me to do that to her. Whenever I am in a relationship, and find myself in a situation and my girlfriend isn't there, I think in my mind "How would I act if she were here?" and do my best to be that way in her absence.2