My boyfriend said that he likes small girls so the smaller I am the better. And that when I gain weight, it doesn't look good.. because I don't have a small body (I have a bigger rib cage).
So what I'm asking is is there any way to shrink your rib cage?
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hey girl, what are you talking about, what are you dating a 12 yo boy? what the hell is that? this is completely unfair, listen, a guy that makes you feel unpretty is not worth your time or you thinking, if he doesn't "love" and lust for the way you look (not only if he is okay with it or not) then get rid of him immediately, you should have known that from the start, one doesn't need stress about the way they look and you need someone that appreciated you. When you grow up more you'll have a bigger breasts because of your body form and that's very sexy, you sound like a good girl and you know what love is, but the jerk you're dating isn't anything like you, he is too much into porn models probably or lame models (the sick body standards) like barbie dolls or very skinny disgusting ones, those are of no use for anything, not even sex, just to feed the hunger of those guys with twisted taste in women to stare at their bones covered with "burned" skin.
say to him this is the way I am, you don't like it then go away. and there is nothing about gaining weight when you grow up, all women experience that and if it was moderate then it can make a woman more feminine and attractive for her age... and if he has set it clear and said to you we'll divorce when you gain more weight then why would you take the risk and get attached to him? you wanna suffer and deal with cheating and break up after couple of years?1