Well, I found what I'm looking for, but what I wanted was this: Someone very smart, with a great sense of humor, and a big heart. Someone who is kind, warm, loving, and affectionate. A good conversationalist. A good friend. Someone with integrity. Someone who is family oriented. Emotionally stable, mature, free from addictions. Faithful, loyal, and devoted. Spiritually centered. Non-materialistic. Financially responsible. Not shallow. Capable of playfulness. In control of his anger. Respectful. Gentle. Good manners...
Personally, I'm looking for a guy who's willing to be my friend before anything else. I want him to know me super well before dating and I'd like for him not to pressure me when we get to that point. Basically, I want to date a friend, not some random cute guy who turns out to be a horndog that wasn't really that interested in the first place.