so you want to show off without being cocky or seem douchey?
That's more or less impossible, becuase showing off implies purposel behaving in a way to (over) empathise skills or assets of yourself. That is (more or less) universally douchey.
But if you need to flash your abbs (what abbs?) then you should do it in a NATURAL way. Now, where do you usually take off your shirt? At the beach, when working in the heat (if it's manual labor or at home), when swimming...
Anything else just seems cocky, possibly tacky, and makes you look like a showoff.
Sorry kiddo, but there's no modet way to show off. You simply have to behave naturally and hope she notices. Besides, abs doesn't count if you don't have muscles on the rest of the body. And if you do have muscles on the rest of the body, you'll look ripped and she'll thus "know" you got abbs.
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Just talk to your crush and get her to like you for being you without knowing about your abs.
Haha lol abs are so hot!!! Okay so if u play sports after the game take ur shirt off, and act like u were sweating so much, or if she lives near u go shirtless in ur backyard or something,,, or if ur around her get ur best friend and be like "Yo wanna check out my abs, I'm gonna work out some more tomorrow, how they turning out?" so thats kinda not showing off and acting cocky but ur also getting her to notice them,,, or do a cartwheel so ur shirt flips up,,,,, or a front flip i knew a guy who did that lol, wear a tight shirt
You look desperate and cocky if you go around shirtless all the time or lift your shirt up to everyone. You could wear tight tops (which my boyfriend does, you can tell he's ripped) or make your abs exclusive to the girl you date. Your crush isn't going to date you just because you have abs unless she's shallow and I'm assuming she's young so maybe.
try to do it at swimming class (if it exists in your country) or you can go some day to the beach with friends and invite her. just don't wear super tight tees. if you have noticeable chest muscles wear cotton t-shirts and fit you (not tight ones) and trust me your crush will definitely notice them. :)
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If you have a really good upper body, you can kinda guess even under a t shirt
Post casually shirtless pics.
#jointeamdouchebag
#wevegotcupcakesandjagerbombsScratch your chest and expose those abs! Or if its hot, pull your shirt away and flap it
You swim. A lot.
Lift your shirt a little. My crush did that in gym and he has abs and it was good
Wear a crop top!
whats abbs?
buy some tight T-shirt and act like you normaly do
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