I guess people consider it "slutty" but it doesn't make you a slut. There's a difference.
If you got large chesticles, that's the price you pay for it. I have a big butt, and I see girls wearing like almost thong, panty-ish bottoms. But they have smaller butts, so it doesn't look slutty. If I'm not wearing like full coverage, it looks kinda trashy in my opinion and you can seem my ass. I don't like that "hanging cheeks" look.
But I'm like a complete prude, the last person you'd ever wanna go with to the beach lol I wear "grandma" bathing suits that are like shorts and tank top. I don't like to show too much skin.
I don't consider girls skanks or whores for wearing that. But society deems that as "slutty".
Guys will love it of course. Some girls won't. It was uncalled for girls to say that. Some girls just don't like to see other girls look better or get all the attention as well.
It's like if a heavyset girl were to wear a revealing outfit, people would be ok with it saying she's "confident". She's "empowering", "not letting society tell her what she can and can't wear." But if a thinner girl does it, you'll have people saying she's a "skank". "Attention whore, trying to hard to get attention", etc.
I guess society or whatever has placed different standards for different people.
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They were expecting to have a lot of attention and you "took it from them" (not your fault), so they were jealous. Wearing a black bikini isn't slutty because black is just another color for a bikini. Another girl could of worn a pink floral print bikini that show way more skin then yours and that could be considered slutty. The way you described your bikini, it doesn't sound slutty.
No, it's not. They were just jealous and also what @Error_204 said. If you have bigger boobs than the average girl, you need more coverage than the average girl. Also not sure what you wore but just for the record there is actually a big difference between this
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And this
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What is up with females hating on other females , this has to stop. More than likely you are more developed than your peers and that is the base of their degrading words either way fk em and flunt even harder if you would like or maintain yourself how you have been either way you look at it people are alway going to talk so might as well do something how you want done... Cheers and happy new years
Its probably cause you have big boobs they told you to cover up the girls were either jealous, or just don't like you because they don't like your personality or are insecure about themselves. I think the only time its acceptable to wear is when you go swimming or for your bf or husband behind close doors.
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You have a more attractive body so that's why everyone was staring at you. The guys are attracted and the girls are jealous. You did nothing wrong. Be proud of your great body.
no they are not slutty but it depends of course on the place you are wearing them and on the bikini itself. if you wear something which barely covers anything or go to the church in them then people will think it's slutty but on the beach or pool it should be fine. don't listen to them. +
I wear them on classtrips too and never had a problem. but might vary from country to country.Well maybe because you have a larger chest it may come off as slutty? Still they shouldn't judge and especially call you such names! Some may be jealous but they're probably just catty bitches. A lot of women are like that to each other and I don't know why.
Wear whatever you want! Who cares what they think? Damn them all.If it is then the beaches of the world are filled with sluts.
Time to build a cabin on the beach!They were clearly jealous of you because you were getting the most attention.
Don't worry about what girls say, some of them are haters.to me, yeah, bikinis are slutty by default. wearing your underwear isn't okay in public- surprising how that changes on the beach or in a pool.
No, you can't help that your body looks a certain way. That's their problem and if they don't like it they can fuck off
no, just cos other girls aren't confident with their bodies doesn't mean you have to be. you go girl!
They were jealous that you have more cleavage than they do.
They're just haters. Nothing wrong with wearing a bikini.The problem is you're more attractive. That actually does carry a greater sense of responsibility; welcome to the human world.
Not at all, they're probably jealous because you looked better than them.
you seem to have quite big tits so im sure their reactions were born from jealousy
It's a bathing wear.. It's normal and not slutty
Unless ure wearing it out to dinner or something.. That'll just be plain weirdIf every other girl did then i dont know why the others were picking on you, thats just mean and a spiteful. At my school we were not allowed bikinis yet us gorls had to go in first so that made the boys stare at us which very uncomfortable!
no ur fine... they're just jealous of ur assets :) what size r u?
Was it see-through or something? I mean, calling somebody a slut for wearing a bikini seems a little... incorrect.
It's not slutty to wear a bikini while swimming. They are hating on you.
Ignore everyone and do what you like with confidence!
absolutley not... I love love love a woman in a bikini
It's not slutty
If they're wearing bikinis too then they are hypocrites
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