so my homie is with my bff.. and he says he loves her and would never hurt her... but this weekend that I saw her she had a black eye and bruises from him.. she said he was mad and took his anger out on her.. so what exactly causes a person to physically hurt someone they say they love?
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My father was the same way and I haven't spoken to him in over a decade. It isn't love, not at all. I would never, ever, even raise my voice in a threatening manner towards someone I love. It's pure unadulterated selfishness and her boyfriend needs to have the sh*t beat out of him then have his lame ass thrown in jail. I'm sorry but to me, domestic abusers are as bad as pedophiles because they cause just as much emotional harm and ruin families and wives. Tell your friend to get the hell out now.0