You have to know the guy is going to look, but what about if you really catch him looking? Does that make you mad or would you prefer to have him look discreetly?
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Oh to have a cleavage! And, when wearing certain bras you can instantly have a cleavage, but once I have one all I want to do is wear something to cover it up! Go figure! I guess I'm just not used to having one. So to answer your question... I suppose it would be flattering, but it would depend on the way the man was looking. If he was just so blatant about it, and oogling that would definitely be a turn-off (unless that was your intention, of course). Personally, that would make me feel cheap, not mad. Being discreet about it would be the gentlemanly way to look, as that is how God made men; to admire women. If a woman was to get mad at men checking them out too closely, then why show it? Really, if a woman is showing a cleavage, she knows men are going to look and if she does not like that then just cover up.0