I feel that sometimes I get judged on how I look, I'm not skinny, nor great looking. I do have a good personality, I'm nice, honest, I work and I go to school, I know what I want! I feel bad about my self, I think my ex boyfriend cheated on me because I wasn't good enough for him, maybe he found someone better looking! I'm scared of dating or give anyone a chance because I think if my ex cheated on me why wouldn't someone else do the same? What is it that guys look for in a women?
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First of all looking at your picture you do look cute and you are beautifull,whether you see that or not!
Second thing guys who cheat its not because you weren't good enough for him its because its his thing and he's an asshole,simply. If he didn't like you, he wouldn't have been with you in the first place.
Third thing there are some shallow guys who do look just for looks but those guys are just immature and kiddos. Because if they think about it, by the time you re 50 your looks will be gone and all what he is left with is your great fun personality! so a wise man would go with her personality and I honestly would go with 50/50 on looks and personality.
Last thing I've been cheated on before, twice actually. I first thought maybe its Me..maybe there is something wrong about me or something missing but I realized evantually that its Him.
So if you feel insecure about yourself then you have to work on that,plus you need to start trusting men again...
Not everyman is an asshole.. I know we all believe that there is only ONE MAN but..this could be not true! just have faith in men and most importantly Yourself!1