I guess im average looking but i find myself always comparing myself to other females that know how to wear makeup and have their nails done and dress really nice with big butts since that's the norm now and i feel like my boyfriend will eventually leave me for one of those girls. Is there anything i can do to stop and just be confident?
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Focus on yourself and don't try to compare yourself so much to other women. I was very insecure when I was younger but I'm 18 now and I don't compare myself to other people. I learned a lot after breaking up with my ex that I don't need to look a certain way just to get a guy to notice me. Or have to pretend to be someone that I am not. I stopped comparing myself to other girls at my school a long time ago because it isn't good for your self-esteem it just beats you up that's all. Everyone is different in there own unique way. Be confident in yourself, love yourself because that is the most important thing. Never try to be someone that you are not, just be you do you. And another thing you don't need make up to feel beautiful, only if you want to wear it. But don't wear to impress someone. I don't wear make up I don't see the point of wearing it, I wear lipstick but that's it. But other than that I don't wear all that other stuff, I feel beautiful in my own skin. He's not going to leave you if you just stick to being yourself. Stop being so insecure and focus on yourself and do not compare yourself to other people. Look in the mirror at yourself and smile and tell yourself that you are beautiful. I can't make you feel good about yourself but I can give you advice. He obviously loves you for who you are which is why he is with you. Don't you see it, I hope so. And smile it really helps.1