I am shy and introverted. Very average looking, even though there are probably some girls that think I'm butt ugly, depending upon their type.
What can I do? I feel so sorry for myself.
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Hey man, I really understand what you're experiencing. Check out this article:
And in addition to the advice in that article, work on expanding your social circle. (If you're shy and introverted like me, check this out: link and link -- these sites are a big-time help.) If you don't have hobbies, try out different things until you stumble upon something enjoyable, and keep at it, using it as a means to get out and build a social life around it. (Check out link for a good place to start). When you work on your social life, you'll have more and more opportunities to meet girls. And when you're a little bit happier (because you're enjoying your hobbies and interests, getting out there with people and starting to feel a little less lonely), women will pick up on that and will be more likely to be attracted to you.
Walk with your head up--it's not about the women noticing you or not, it's about you being a man among other men, having the same right as any other human being on the planet to be here and seek happiness. (And here's a secret: the right woman will be attracted to that attitude.)
Finally, don't do like me and get into the bad habit of staying online, asking questions and reading all this advice. It's great to get some theory in your head, but it becomes meaningless unless it's put into practice. You have to just shut the computer off and get out there, as uncomfortable/painful as it may be, and make yourself meet new people. It's hard at first, but totally worth it. Good luck man.2