my mother tells me I dont look young and that I look 30 in the face. she says that because of my mature appearance a young guy will not find me attractive only someone who is 60+. is this true?
i'm seriously considering getting fillers like Restalyn or Juvaderm now
Wow this thread made me feel so much better. i was ready to go to a doctor and spend half my savings on botox and fillers. Im dead serious. I even made a consultation. now, I am going to cancel it and not listen to my mom's put downs anymore
Don't let your mom get into your head about this, it's simply untrue. I know many women that are 30+ that are still very beautiful and desirable, and honestly I need to think of who they are to separate and. categorize, because they can still hang with the younger girls. Don't go getting a bunch of chemicals shot into your face, I... uh... know someone like that😱 @Kris85 (PS: to be clear, it is not Kris85 getting chemicals shot into her face, just tagging her for an inside joke. This is how "rumoUrs" get started😆)
To start off. That pretty harsh of your mom to say that =/. Secondly older woman look great too, and a lot of guys are totally into older looking women. Not to mention if you are more mature in general you will attract the good kind of guys as well.
First of all, there's nothing wrong with the way 30 y/o women look. Or 40 or 50, etc. I think it's hurtful for your mom to say that about guys your age not finding you attractive, and I don't believe that's true at all.
Wow your mom told you that... that's sick and not in a good way!
In regards to: do you look old after 30... are you kidding me... there are women out there that look way hot at 30 and up! Youth has nothing to do with hotness level. Its the individual woman that is hot and remains hot throughout her lifetime.
If anything you become more hot with age... they just exude it and know how to own it!
A pic would help immensely to judge that :) however, some people do look younger, some older, but I wouldn't go so far as your mother :D
Aging process also sometimes "stops" for a time at some point with certain people. I have a female friend that looked really old when she was 25, she looked like 30 at least. Now, 12 years later, she looks almost the same and is considered good looking for her age :)
It all depends some women are in their fifties and they look like they are in their early thirties. Most of is just genetic you can do other stuff though to make your self look younger though cream, getting botox injections, putting on that green stuff women put on their face with pickles on them too lol I forgot what that was called.
A 30 year old is not old or less beautiful. I don't know about young guys - guys in their late teens or earlier 20s, but I personally would find a woman in her 30s attractive. Do NOT get fillers. If I was 18, I would find a 30 year old woman beautiful.
No. It's hot. Beauty and sexiness have nothing to do with age.
I had a girlfriend who was age 18 and i was age 35 at the time and honestly she looked way older than age 18 and i was dating her but there's lot beautiful girls on here age 30 + and I'm little crazy cause i fantasize over seeing them with a much younger guy like 18-24 years old
Women peak much younger than 30, then their looks start to degrade a little every year. Don't get me wrong, women can still look hot at 30, but they will never look as good as when they were 20. Women are most fertile when they are young, which is why men are designed to be most attracted to younger women.
I am glad your update said you reconsidered medical procedures. I am 32 and about to be 33 and I don't think I look old. Just because you have a mature look doesn't mean you look old. Perhaps your mom is jealous? Or doesn't think compliments are a good way to talk to someone? Either way you should look at yourself and see all the things that make you happy, not the things you don't like. Then look at those things everyday.
I hate people like your mom, older men tend to look at women who are fuller in other words, not stick thin well some! Half the time when someone tells me how old do I look? I can never tell, take for example Miranda ker she is 30 and to me she looks 20 - when I asked my mom how old she looks, she said 30 so I don't know - I think my mother and your mother have major insecurities because my mom says the same thing - your age men don't look at girls who look like you who look older than you are!
And don't get fillers that crap makes it worse, try a different hairstyle usually the hair makes a lot of difference in a persons age
What your mother said is insulting.. I don't think there will be only old men who will like you.. And 30 year old women are still young. Shakira is 40 and is still very beautiful. If you don't want to look older though, you can make some changes in your appearance. Your make up, your hair style or your clothes might make you look older
your mother sounds like a nasty piece of work. Younger guys love older ladies, but 30 is not older.
Your mom is weird and just because she thinks no one will love her doesn't mean it's applicable to you. At the risk of being hideously offensive, fuck your mom, don't let her bitterness bring you down. I don't understand some people, is that how you should treat your daughter? Some people shouldn't be allowed to have children
Good lord thats not true! 30 is not old and absolutely does not attract only 60+! She is grossly wrong in her observation! I'm 47. I look 36-43ish approx. guys in their late 20's to 60's compliment me. 30 is a GREAT age to look!! And most certainly will attract guys your dating range.
I know a few men, and I am not saying this the norm, but I know a few men who are very attracted to older women. Now, that being said, 30 is not old at all. There are plenty of men out there who will find you attractive just as you are.
I'm over thirty and mostly get approached by younger men. Actually it's been like that most of my life. So maybe it's not true that women over thirty looks so bad. Then again, maybe they are just after those riches that us old people are supposedly hoarding away.
men do always pick a younger woman that part is true
your mother is aging and taking her self insecurity out on you... my mom did the same, she use to call me long distance and tell me I look wrinkly even though I was only 18 at the time. dont listen to her, she isn't being a good mother
Can we see a photo? I bet you don't look anywhere near as bad as you make it sound! Even if you do look 30... 30 is still young (I am 30) and I highly doubt you will attract only 60+ men as that is double 30! No offence but your mum doesn't sound nice and she shouldn't be saying this to you maybe she has issues of her own.
That's not true. She's mean. Heavy drinkers, smokers and drug users have old looking faces. Don't listen to her.