Just wondering, I have a friend who has a boyfriend and she doesn't like the way he dresses. She feels he would compliment her better if he actually wore clothes he can fit. Which I agree...
My observation of her experiences made me ask this question, and she's asked it to me before and more recently I've thought about it I am not a dude so I'd figure I would ask... Seeing the responses I have a whole other perspective rather than my friend's
It all depends on how you go about it. The best possible way is to show up with new clothes that you bought, that he actually likes. The worst is to say that he needs a new wardrobe, his style is weak, and anything that could be taken as an insult. Yes, a mature guy will laugh off this sort of thing, but how many guys are truly mature before they are forty or fifty years old?
I wouldn't be offended if my girlfriend tried to suggest things for me to wear. I would try out her suggestions, but I'd have to actually like it and it would have to feel right for me to want to keep the new style.
If she simply suggested that I tried some new clothes -- "I think that shirt would look good on you!" and then dropped the subject, I'd be willing to try.
If she pressured me to change my entire wardrobe, nagged because she didn't like my shoes and tried to change _my_ style with the goal of making _her_ look better, I'd dump her shallow, insecure, manipulative butt in the street and find a girl who can accept me as I am and show more respect for my decisions.
if she wanted to revamp most or all of my closet then I would be offended but if she didn't like a couple of articles of clothing then I wouldn't really care but of course if I tell her the same thing she has to be cool with it as well
I'd ditch the girl and find me one that doesn't need to change who I am and how I dress.
If the way your friends boyfriend dresses really bothers her that badly then maybe she should find someone else who dresses how she likes. Your friend should accept her boyfriend how he is. Clothes aren't everything =/
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