I am already in good shape. I go to the gym a lot. But I feel like my look is too ordinary and everyday. I sort of have that girl next door thing going on.
How does one appear hot? Lots of make up? Hair extensions? Acrylic nails?
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You should have been brave and posted a pic... I did that with my hair/beard suggestions question so I wouldn't end up with generic responses directed to an idea or preference, BUT instead it was based off of what I actually look like.
As for your ideas you posted - God no, don't do that, all 3 of those things are turn offs for me. If you're already in shape then that's a HUGE plus, so everything else you'd have to do would be fashion/style changes that suit you and show off your best features.
And the other thing you'd have to do is show off your personality better, maybe you're being withdrawn or hiding the true you when who you are is very appealing (I know I have hard time being myself sometimes and what people are left with is a very boring version of myself)
Or maybe being you isn't good enough. Yeah I know it's an awful thing to say/think but the dating world is shallow & fickle and it seems fakeness reigns supreme.
BUT I recommend being yourself 1st & being confident!!!0