i mean I know I'm pretty and fun but I'm like another one of the guys. I'm the biggest tomboy with makeup on. but I feel like every guy that looks at me goes all googly eyed and its a pain in the ass where I'm in a room with guys who are all staring at me grab beer in the fridge instead of watching the game. what could I possibly do to make see me as just one of the guys
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Know the feeling! Stuff I do:
1) don't get dolled up if you know you're going to see them. Look a bit rough, don't care about it, that kinda makes you one of the guys. Go for t-shirt & jeans or something that isn't what they might call 'pretty' or 'sexy' or whatever.
2) tell them you've got a boyfriend, even if you have to make him up! That way you're at least not available to them. And f you actually do get a guy, talk about him every now and again in a good light (which you'd probably want to do anyway) and they'll see you've got your eye on someone else.
If they still won't stop, set your big brother on them XD1