i mean I know I'm pretty and fun but I'm like another one of the guys. I'm the biggest tomboy with makeup on. but I feel like every guy that looks at me goes all googly eyed and its a pain in the ass where I'm in a room with guys who are all staring at me grab beer in the fridge instead of watching the game. what could I possibly do to make see me as just one of the guys
all I asked was how to keep my guy friends just that friends. like wtf do I cut my hair? wtf does that have to do w anything?
1) don't get dolled up if you know you're going to see them. Look a bit rough, don't care about it, that kinda makes you one of the guys. Go for t-shirt & jeans or something that isn't what they might call 'pretty' or 'sexy' or whatever.
2) tell them you've got a boyfriend, even if you have to make him up! That way you're at least not available to them. And f you actually do get a guy, talk about him every now and again in a good light (which you'd probably want to do anyway) and they'll see you've got your eye on someone else.
If they still won't stop, set your big brother on them XD
It could be a possibility that they are just treating you like one of the boys - they're comfortable enough to say that sorta stuff to you without you taking it the wrong way. Do they get quiet around girls they actually like?
lose the extensions and hoochy makeup. you're a pretty girl, and the way you dress, you come off like someone looking to get laid. so since you're pretty, any guy would be obliged to do the honors.
this is bull, you love the attention. you know why guys stare at you. if you really wanted them to stop and you really wanted to be one of the guys, you'd stop wearing the clown makeup (your eye liner looks ridiculous), take out the piercings, cut your hair, and pull your top up. if you dress like you do in your picture (not the profile one) then, no sh*t guys stare at you, your boobs are hanging out.
so as far as I can tell, you love the attention, and now you're on here to tell everyone about how you're such a babe and pretend like you don't enjoy it.