OK, I think I'm a good guy, haha it doesn't sound right but I am. I'm sometimes too nice and sometimes unable to say no. But that haven't helped me at all finding a girlfriend. Not that I'm really trying to find one but I mean I would thought it should help. cause I'm not even bad looking.
It seems like girls in their 20s would date the nice guys. but not teenagers. why is that?
What do you teenager girls think of good guys?
Should I be more like a jerk? selfish and careless.
No one likes dating doormats. I love dating a good guy but not a pushover. Who wants to date a guy who is too nice and sometimes unable to say no. Its the same reason guys don't want to date girls who always agree with them. It's boring and it isn't real. It shows a lack of self-esteem. It would definitely lead me to believe that you wouldn't be able to stand up for me or I would be waiting for the switch to turn-on and the real you to come out, the guy who wasn't so nice.
All girls seem to want the jerks. That continues on after the teenage years my man. See the thing with women is- they date the jerk, and that gives them the ability to complain. But, if they date the good guy, it eliminates the challenge. Therefor, giving them another reason to complain. t's lose-lose all around. I am a very good guy, I can be a jerk at times when warranted (my slut ex girlfriend being a whore), and I am always second-rate.