I used to have really long hair but had to cut it all off due to a lot of damage. Ever since then my hair has been the source of a lot of insecurity and a lot of tears. I don't know why it's such a big deal but I absolutely hate having short hair and it makes me miserable. I really want to get hair extensions just to be able to feel confident again, but I've heard some guys think extensions are gross. I would make sure they look super natural, I just don't want my boyfriend to be less attracted to me cause I get extensions put in. So is it really that big of a deal?
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I doubt you look as bad as you feel about your hair. While I usually prefer long hair, girls can rock short hair, and if you're confident about it and just cool in general, few people will even notice. I asked out a girl with a buzz cut once, because she was interesting, unique, and didn't care that her hair was short.
The pictures I've seen of hair extensions have mostly been the process of putting them in, which is strange-looking, and not the final result. I'm sure I've seen plenty of girls with hair like that without even realizing it, and it's looked good and natural. But I also think you should just consider going with short hair a little while. Maybe you'll conquer your fears that short hair is inherently worse than long hair.1