Iam just asking because I read some where that a girl that wears a push-up bra is a slut
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For your age, no. Those are things that I consider you wear when you're dressed to get laid. You're 13 not 18 or 20. True, I'm 17 and I have had thongs since 15 but I only wore them with hugging things- maxi dresses and skirts, pencil skirts. A 13 year old shouldn't be trying to wear clothes that huge her body that tight yet. If you're wearing leggings and thats why you need a G-String, just stop. Stop right now and go put some actual pants on. Boys should have to work to see your ass almost bare like that. Put on some actual pants, a skirt over, or a long shirt that goes past your butt by 2 inches at least
As for the bra, I personally don't like push up bras because they are lying. It's like a guy buying a bag of chips and come to find out half the bag is air. Sure, they are great for a one nighter or to go clubbing, but you're 13.
Really you're just trying to make yourself seem sexy. Sexy is nice but only if you fully understand what boys may or may not be doing in their head when they see you "sexy". Not to mention the fact that as you may be dressing yourself up, you may attract some creepo weirdos. Do you want some 45year old man doing unspeakable sexual things in his mind when he sees you? No. Thats nasty af.
Right now you need to be preserving you innocence. Sure, you want boys attentions thats okay but with what you may be trying to do you'll only get their WORST kind of attention for a few days top. Dress like a lady with class while giving off the innocent look and you will get someone who truly cherishes you and thinks your sexy even in a potato sack. I did this and my first boyfriend was for 10 months and we never fought or anything. We only ended because I'm going on exchange soon. He treated me like a lady and he had a good head on his shoulders- first year pre-med student. He was a gentleman, not some boy who only wanted to claim me on his lists of fucks.
Treat yourself with respect and you'll get it back. And get rid of that goddamn name. That is just asking to be treated like shit.2