So whenever I've seen an interracial relationship with black and white people where I live, I've come to notice that it's usually a white girl and a black guy... almost never the other way around.
Is there a reason for this? Are a lot of black girls just not in to white guys? I'm a white guy myself and am thinking about asking out a black girl from my college.
So I have a question for all of the black girls out there. Would you date a white guy? And, why or why not? What would make you interested in a white dude.
On a side note, is it better to say african american girls or black girls? Just curious.
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black guys are usually more forward and assertive when it comes to girls of any race so that's why you see a black guy/x race girl pairing more often. white guys seem to be more subtle and less assertive when it comes to getting girls so that's might be one reason why the rates of interracial relationships are lower.
it depends on the girl. some of us are open to dating out of our race and some of us just stick to black guys, and then there are some black girls who don't even date black guys and only interracially date. it just depends on the girl.
personally I am attracted to some white guys but I have never dated one before. I am used to black guys but if I met a white dude and had chemistry with him and he was a good guy and not just out for sex I probably would. depending on where you live it can be really controversial so personally I wouldn't get into an interracial relationship just to do it, I would have to really like him and he'd have to be worth it.
african-american or black doesn't really matter. its not offensive either way, but I would just say black. black is a race, african american is an ethnicity. not all black people are african american. its like calling white people italian american or german american...you know their race but you don't know their exact ethnicity. just pointing that out but either way no one really gets offended.5