My age is 20.i am not muscular but in shape.no fat.I have no girlfriend.But I keep on hearing from here and there "he is so cute!".they don't say in front of me.suppose girl friends of my sister tell her "i must say,your brother is really cute",few elder women gossips with my mother "your child has a nice face,very cute guy"...cute ,cute ,cute.Girls please help what do you like cute,or hot,i mean I am confused.
And another thing.Suppose if you like a cute guy,do you have any concept in your mind like "it's OK,he can build up his body at any moment.it's just a matter of hard work,and not god gifted body" ?
last not but the least I have personality,confidence,sense of humor.no I am not saying,these are the comments I get from my friend.
note: I do not want to hear answer like personality,character matters all that, I know all that.Girls,boys everyone need to have it. My question is based solely upon looks,so I want answers based only on that
Honestly, if I say a guy is cute, its more like a "hes real cute, but I wouldn't date him". I'm not saying I have a type, but unless your my boyfriend or something, cute is like someone very good looking that I wouldn't consider going out with. I tell boyfriends they are cute but it usually is to describe their personality or something they said. this guy got really nervous around me (like dropping things nervous) and I told him he was cute. yea, he was very attractive but I didn't mean it like that. so yea I hope I didn't confuse u.
cute-1. aaawww baby cute he has a cute little kidness to him
2. very good looking guy but I personally didn't consider dating him (dont get me wrong he's a great guy and all but don't feel like dating him)
hot- picturing makeout sessions as we say the word. (can I jump him now?) <---lust word
sexi- for me its a mixture of cute and hot minus the jump him and not consider date him. I guess I just felt like I had to twist the meaning of the word to accomodate my needs lol
ok so I hope this helped bcz it made sense it my head, I promise
I say "he's cute" when I find a guy attractive. I only use the word hot when he's like drop dead gorgeous. Or I say he's gorgeous. but anyow, a girl will say a guy is cute if she thinks he's good looking. and in that case, it doesn't matter if he's "hot" or "gorgeous" and a lot of times, girls find a guy with a great personality more attractive. So even if he's not especially good looking she might say "he's cute" because she just likes him. Regardless of his face or body lol. Personality makes a guy that much better looking. Somehow his personality attributes to how we view him. If he's an ass, he's usually unattractive even if we saw his face before and thought he was cute... I wonder if any of that made any sense.
Cute can mean a lot of things. Sometimes, you'll hear girls say, "Awww, he's cute," in which they probably mean a guy is cute in a "teddy-bear" sort of way not a "hot" way. A "Wow, he's cute," is more along the lines of, "Wow, he's good looking/he's hot/etc." By the way you're describing things, I'm assuming girls find you good looking, rather than cute in the adorable-little-kid sense. That's good! That's what most girls like better, at least the ones I know.
As for your second question, if I think a guy is good looking, it's pretty much a given that I already like his body.
I have the same problem... lol. exactly the same... :(
I think we're just gonna have to wait it out dude. I've tried pursuing girls and they just... don't like me like that. We gotta just stay patient and wait for girls to mature and get over this "bad boy" phase they're in...