I shouldn't have asked this question. Clearly women just like guys in baggy ugly clothing in general. The only thing that matters is that I like them and I'm confident they look good on me. If they look thight that's because they are a new pair and this is my first time wearing them. Any pair of boxer briefs will look like that. Boxers don't stretch and actually get caught on my thighs because I have bigger legs so they're out. I'm sorry, I like them. Accept it or take them off me.