A man will tell you you're crazy trying to walk in those shoes but ah well it ain't since the 18th century did men wear highheels so knock yourself out I suppose lol Beside from the walking concern , there's no real "clubbing shoes" me think. It's just shoes.
Isn't it time for your mom to let you pick your own clothes? Parents should just give their children a clothing allowance and let them wear what they want. Your mom needs to let you grow up. You will be wearing them, not her.