I hate being very very hairy guy. Is epilator a great option to become normal smooth human being?

[Anonymous]

I am very very hairy guy and i absolutly hate it. It makes me feel like a beast unworhty and undeserving of women and inferior to other less hairy men and smooth women who seem to be more evolved evolutionary than i am.
What if i buy an epilator to become like a normal human being with less / nno body hair, although this would be a very temporary solution.
Is it feasible to use epilator on my whole body? Is it ok and gives nice results?

[emilyg25]

I can't tell if this is a troll (no pun intended) or not.
But, if you aren't there are lots of women out there that think body hair is sexy (myself included). I'd rather a hairy guy than guys that are totally shaved. Though, trimming never hurts anyone.

[Asker]

no way ma'am , its not a troll at all. I actually AM realy hairy like furry :-/ even on weird places meant to be hairless. I seriously wish i was normal or maybe tota smooth naturally :-)
Trimming gets pricky esp the torso hair which is very coarse hurts myself :-(

[emilyg25]

Ah, I see. Is it long or thick? Or both?
And by trimming I generally meant more south haha ;)
But you've got me curious now. Where abouts are you hairy that other people usually aren't?

[Asker]

Shoulders / upper arms , butt :-/
and yeah its coarse , dense and long as well
now u won't want this hairy over smooth shaved hairless..

[emilyg25]

OKay haha, wishing I had gone anonymous now for this comment but I don't want to leave you hanging.
I think hairy butts are sexy haha. I don't know why, but I do.
As for the shaving comment though, shaving could make it worse. It's great for the first couple of days for some areas, but then you get red bumps that are painful and itchy. Possibility of ingrown hairs. But I have sensitive skin, so maybe it's worse for me.
But no matter what your skin type, hair grows back. And when it does it will be short and prickly. And those couple of days between hair just starting to grow back and being long enough to shave are hell!

[Asker]

am talking about hairy butt cheeks... if you get it?
epilating is what kind of option though?

[emilyg25]

What other kind of hairy butt is there haha?
I'm thinking like this. If this is what you meant? They have a whole Tumblr page dedicated to them. Which I just stumbled upon right now looking up a picture by the way. Not a follower :P
Kind of pornoish. Be warned before clicking!
https://fuckyeahhairybutts.tumblr.com

As for epilators, I have never used one before so I have no idea how much they cost/how long you stay hair free/the length of time it takes to use one, etc. I will so though that if you decide to use it, if you're getting rid of it completely then do it all over. I think guys that either have just pubes shaved completely but nothing else done look hilarious.

[Asker]

:-p you accept those kind of hairy butts! :-O. wow , mostly women can accept hairy front torso at the max and never accept a hairy back/shoulders and butt!!! How are your views on those hairy parts? How about hairy stomach? Its the MOST painful thing to wax/pull hair esp if the hairs are soo damn coarse the way i have.
lol, i do agree a very hairy body otherwise but hairless groin looks very ridiculous to me.. i won't do that sort of stupidity, am planning to go hairless on whole body, arms/legs/thighs included.

[emilyg25]

Hairy chest, stomach, etc. doesn't bother me at all. LOVE happy trail area so that is not a problem. Not a huge fan of hairy shoulers/back, but I could live with it. As long as he didn't mind if I sometimes left some time between shaving in the winter! Hairy legs and arms don't bother me on guys either, but I guess it would look kind of funny to only wax certain areas and to be really hair others.

[Asker]

lols.. ma'am am talking abour really hairy whole frontal torso , not just some chest hair and a happy trail!!

[emilyg25]

https://hairyfillus.tumblr.com/
Something like that then? I'm cool with that :)
And have you tried an electric shaver? Won't get rid of the hair but it's a great way to shorten it without the pain. Not sure what's available for men, but something similar to the Shick Quattro for Women Trim Style Razor. It's a razor/shaver combo and there are different settings for length and stuff. I have had one for 2 years now and I love it. Or you could try Veet/Nair. I would wait until it is shortened a bit first but that really does work. Doesn't take long to grow back in but it's less painful than waxing.

[Asker]

exactlly.. am talknig that level of hairyness :-/
you "cool" with that? o yaaa? thats what even old mature women are NOT cool with... how come you being soo young cool with it? intriguing person!
you mean do anything but do not epilate! lol
i did try shaving a patch , it gets itchy intially and then prickly after re growth :-/
... and didn't yo found such hairy men weird and abnormal beasts type? wondering!
makes me feel insecure n inferior.

[emilyg25]

Nah, doesn't bother me at all!
And maybe because I grew up around hairy guys? My dad is hairy haha, maybe I'm desensitized to it? :P
And I don't mean the razor itself, I mean the electric trimmer. It's just like giving yourself a buzz cut
And I've never used an epilator, so I don't want to give advice on it.

[Asker]

what if THIS hairy guy waxes it smooth everywehre? would you prefer he waxes smooth if he was YOUR guy lol?
Even your dad is super hairy like this? you have bro? is he hairy? and are you by anychance fuzzy for a woman? lol
i feel so hairy bear :-/
how to feel normal human and at par with men n women?

[emilyg25]

I have a younger brother and he's 14, so he's not totally through puberty yet. But he's had hairy legs and started growing some facial hair when he was 12. He's got a thickish happy trail (eww, don't want to think about) and some chest hair starting. Underarm hair too obviously.
My dad has dark hair and tan-ish skin, where as I took after my mother's scottish background. I am a brunette with some reddish tint, but my arm hair is fairly light, almost invisible. I'm pale and I have freckles too haha. I think I have regular amount of hair as other women for legs, underarm, etc, but I do have a bit of a trail up to my belly button that I hate. It's dark and kind of coarse. It's darker than my pubic hair haha, I don't know why that is. I usually Nair it or use the electric trimmer on it.
As for if it were my boyfriend, I'd want him to do what he felt comfortable. Basically what I'm saying is that body hair can be sexy, but him being waxed or not wouldn't make or break it for me.

[Asker]

why you say "eww " to your bros happy trail? lols
dad is as hairy as those website men? and thas weird that you have thicker happy trial but thin pubic hairs!
anyway..
when you say body hair "can be sexy"... what does it mean exactly? Can be sexy? hmm... confused me a bit!
and i am still to find a way to epilate / shave butt / back hair myself :-/

[emilyg25]

Because I don't want to think about him that way. I feel like looking at it would be the equivalent of sizing up your sister's boobs :P
And yeah, he is
The hair isn't really thicker than my pubes, but it is darker.
And when I say "Can be" I mean it as not everyone looks good with it. Same as not everyone looks good with blonde hair, etc. But I almost always find it attractive on men. And yeah, doing it by yourself would be tough!

[Asker]

mind answering here?

http //www girlsaskguys com/health-fitness/q1580016-how-to-feel-that-i-am-normal-not-curse

[LeedsDude]

I'm practically hairless aside from normal places I bet I get more comments normally asking if I shave or wax. I have two hairs on my nipples and apart from my pits that's it for the chest and back areas. Dude shair the hair!

[Asker]

WOW dude.. awesome lucky dude!
dom't even wish for more body hair, i wish i was smooth like a woman! :-)

[LeedsDude]

That's part of my point "like a woman" your a man you beat big hairy man chest me hairless man must shave be metrosexual or like a girl

[emilyg25]

Women have hair too! Just spend lots of money, time, and pain to hide it.

[Asker]

sorry? didn't get your point here?

[LeedsDude]

Hairless like a woman sucks, on a good note it may pass on to my daughter and she will be grateful for the gene or lack thereof

[Anonymous]

Sure... get an epilator... they HURT

[Asker]

but do they do their job well?

[Opinion Owner]

yes. But you need to use a creme that prevents ingrown hairs. Same as with waxing. I body build. A lot of men do this for competitions.

[Asker]

so, even you use epilators on whole body?

[Opinion Owner]

no, I dont compete. But I know a lot of men and women that do. They wax and use epiladys. Be careful on the scrotum... can get a lot of nasty snags there. Perhaps wax at first and follow up with the depilitator

[Asker]

lols dude am not going to epilate my scrotum!! am waay to considered about making my other body parts normal and appealing... who is going to see my scrotum! lols

[Opinion Owner]

you said your WHOLE body. I was just warning you... guy at the gym got his caught in an epilator... ouch!