Okay so I'm "seeing" this guy, and we've been very close for about a month now.. we where seeing each other months before this as well but we both just went separate ways cause he moved..
so anyways, I see him almost everyday, he stays over almost every second night.. we are sexually active.
every time I'm with him, we constantly stare into each others eyes and he ALWAYS is smiling, I always make him laugh and he is very affectionate around his friends and mine.
another thing is, I get along really well with his friends and he gets along great with mine to!
I never ask him to do anything, I tell him to do whatever makes him happy and I NEVER get angry if he hangs with his friends instead of me..
I'm constantly trying to help him out, he doesn't live at home and I always make sure he is fed, showered and always has a bed to sleep in if he needs it, I even by him presents.
Now, to me.. it seems like he really likes me, he even brings up things in the future like me coming to watch him play football, which is months away, he talks about paying for my stretch hummer for my birthday which is 6 months away! so he has told me that one day he will ask me out, but I'm getting impatient, why is he waiting?
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you're giving your all to a guy (sex, affection, caring for him practically and as far as feelings, acting like his girlfriend w presents) and it's not reciprocated...why would you set yourself up for this?
why invest so much of your goodness and generosity when he is not even interested in being your official bf?
might be a good idea to scale back your niceness and perhaps the physicality (that one's hard I know), otherwise gf, you're just setting yourself up for disappointment and a jaded view on guys, that you will have ultimately brought on yourself...
good luck :) :)0