Okay so I am fat...well not obese fat...but fat.
I am planning on going on vacation during spring break with someone special. He has never seen me naked or even in a bathing suit. I told him how sometimes I feel uncomfortable in bathing suits and he told me to stop...as in I had no reason to feel embarrassed or anything. He is always telling me that I have nothing to worry about in that department, but...then again he has never seen me any other way then fully clothed!
So...how do I know if I should wear a bikini or even a tankini at the beach? I don't want to be that one girl who is like grossing people out or anything and I most certainly don't want to gross this guy out either! However, I do want to give off an air of confidence...so what do I do?
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I don't think there's a "too big", but if you get one make sure it fits well, as in get bottoms that'll cover you properly, without making you look saggy and if possible get a top that's in a bra size. Just be picky and you should be able to get one to suit! Try lookin' up what style bathing suits flatter different shapes e.g. pear, apple, hourglass etc. Even if you're big, you still have to have a shape, and if you wear something to suit that I'm sure you'll look hot! Best of luck..have a great time! =D0