I find it a big turn off because it looks kind of.. dirty. All the unnatural, loud hair colours, the hairstyles, the clothes, the tattoos, the make up. It just all looks kind of dirty and attention seeking.
Sorry you're hassled so much about it. You should be yourself however that is and for whatever you are into. I like a mixture of feminine and alternative, rock, and tomboyish characters. You can be all of it if you want. What do you want to do?