I had a hair cut today which was needed but the lady messed my side burn up and accidentally shaved my well groomed stubble beard. I was so salty I had to go home immediately and shave it all off to get it to even out again. I'm so mad and my buddies invited me out and I told them I couldn't go cause I had work at home. I am scared to leave my house tomorrow for work cause I don't want to be seen without any facial hair. I knkw imna little irrational but do other feel this way?
I still am a little annoyed i am going out tomorow and have exactly 25 hours to grow something back.
depends how insecure you are but I totally understand how you feel.. basically what sits on or around your face is the frame... its like a picture, if the frame looks not right so too does the picture look not right... but that's because you see that image every day, every second of the day... others don't... so in 25 hours I am sure you will regain some lost hair and feel better about going out... its the company that matters and your personality will over shadow what you are not happy about. sometimes if people make a comment on your insecurity, make a joke of it and people will admire that you can actually laugh at yourself and be surprised by how people take to you in another light... :)) hope that helps...
It's understandable to be a bit put out (especially because she messed up your hair cut), but the hiding in your house thing and being *angry* about it is irrational. Is your facial hair what defines you as a person? Do you have no other identity apart from being the dude with a beard? I rather hope not.