well me and my boyfriend been together for over a yr...doing that time a lot has happened. He meet me I had big boobs and a nice ass I was what you call thick. I got sick with a kidney disease I lost like 30 pounds. I was curvy now I'm skinny...i feel ugly everything is smaller now. Is bigger really better ? I feel like he thinks I'm plain looking. I want my boyfriend to still think I'm beautiful.
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We guys are highly influenced by how our woman feels. If you're feeling ugly and unhappy with your own appearance, then why should we feel differently?
If you can't love yourself for the way you are, then why would you expect him to?
Take some time to quiet down your Inner Judge, and relearn how nice it feels to accept yourself - no matter how your body appears.
Once you're secure in yourself again (and you WILL be) then it won't matter how he sees you.
If you're being needy, insecure, and negative hen you're being "ugly" on the inside which is much worse than being "ugly" on the outside.
We guys might notice you from across the room if you've got great t*ts, but we fall in LOVE with who you ARE (your personality and energy.)
Love yourself again, and he will too. If he's too superficial to care then meet someone NEW worth getting to know.
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