So I'm 19 and forever alone so far in my life. Never even been on a date. What I've gathared from guys around me is that they feel emasculated by me. I do have naturally athletic body (kinda look like Ronda Rousey) with no boobs, but a pretty great butt. I try to wear more feminine clothing. I am also really independent. My question is what can I do to make guys more attracted to me?
It's about the vibes you are sending and not how attractive you are. Guys usually go for girls who look happier and more approachable. Try to smile more and also don't act defensive or bitchy. Don't take life seriously. It's all good fun. Also avoid looking or being arrogant. Guys will sense this and won't be afraid to make the first move.
It's probably not about appearance, I think a lot of girls get this one wrong. Yes attractive girls do get ogled a lot, but not picked up on as much. It's probably something in your personality that is the turn off. I know that certain looks and expressions are a big "no go" for me.
dressing feminine yet acting all tough ( independent ) or tomboyish doesn't go very far in getting get attracted to you , it gets you noticed that's for sure but for all the wrong reasons. guys do not like feeling that they are in competition with a possible interest , its just a turn off plain and simple. they want to touch and hold hands with you , not arm wrestle you
Perhaps the question should be reworded as this: How can I get a larger fraction of guys interested in me?
The other answers are good but something else you can do is put yourself in environments surrounded by lots of men. For instance, go with a girlfriend and attend sporting events. Take a class at a nerd school or a class that would have lots of guys. When you are surrounded by a lot more men, you will definitely get noticed and there's a better chance that a guy will express interest in you.
You are definitely good looking enough to get a guy. In fact, you look a lot like the girlfriend I got 25 years ago this coming week. She was beautiful and we went to a nerd school together. I couldn't believe she was available and hadn't had a boyfriend in 1.5 years. However, I realized she had to be mine... Unfortunately, she realuzed otherwise and here I sit heartbroken 23 years later...
you are very beautiful. I don't think its about you I think you just need a guy who is more confident about his masculinity. however if you just want to try it your way then you could try wearing more provocative clothing. or something very ladylike. like a sundress, although that might be difficult in denmark
I've looked at your pic and thought about it... but it's really no more than details! I'd say use that beautiful blonde hair to play with: a pony tail, try to tie it up, a hair braid,... Apart from that, the combination of look, glasses, make-up and hairstyle could only get a little added value from a nice spontaneous smile :D
You have a really pretty face, so it must be your body type that is intimidating them. Plus, most guys aren't attracted to women who claim to be "independent". They are more attracted to timid, dependent, and submissive women.