Is it possible to attract someone with charm and personality, rather then just on plain external appearance ? I am not saying I am ugly, but my teeth are not straight at all and I am in the process of getting them fixed ( no braces yet though) and this makes me really self conscious - so, would a guy be attracted to a girl who has such an obvious flaw ?
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I've also always had crooked teeth and there was a time when I felt self-conscious about it. Pretty much, I learnt that when you feel like crap, you look like crap! As soon as I stop being all "arrrgh, my teeth make me ugly!" and start smiling, I felt more attractive, and when you feel more attractive you actually are more attractive. Self-image is everything. Confidence adds attraction!
Onto your actual question, I can't give an answer from a guy's perspective, but I'll give you mine. It's definitely possible to attract someone with personality. There's guys that I've known who have been gorgeous, but as soon as I talk to them, they're filthy or just plain jerks - and they're not attractive any more. Vice versa, there's guys that I was initially not interested in, but when I started talking to them (or just watched them out of curiosity) I found out what lovely charming people they were and that made them attractive. I think attractiveness is based on a lot more than just physical appearance.
All in all, my advice is confidence. Don't look at your teeth as a flaw, look at them as character! I got braces and now my teeth are fixed. Beforehand I thought, "Great, my teeth will be straight soon, problem solved!" But now I miss my crooked teeth! They added character to my face, made my smile more unique.
Smile at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself it's beautiful. :) Good luck!0