Ok this has nothing to do with the sun, the girl is just very modest and that bothers you. It's also possible she has scars she doesn't want you to see. I would sooner bet that's it.
If not...
You can try to force this, but clothes are a big part of how we present ourselves to other people. A piece of our identity. If you intrude on her sense of individuality without her genuinely wanting to go along with it, and you only make her feel fake and not good enough in the form she likes herself in, she may grow to hate you for it. Especially if there is some moral/emotional appreciation of modesty within her. In that case you should really fuck off. Some guys and girls really aren't meant for one another.
But if you just want to appreciate her looks because you love her and she is torturing you by refusing to show skin to you, you need to appeal to her with your desires in an intimate loving sense. "I want to see you. I want to be able to appreciate your beauty." blah, blah...
You can get her to try something out for your sake and if she really doesn't like it, it's ok.
But if this truly about you needing intimacy.
As far as your friends go... "I want to show you off, I want everyone to know I scored." That is not about maintaining your relationship, but about your pride. And while I am all for making my guy's friends jealous of him, because I want to make him happy, if a girl is not ok with being your trophy, forcing her to act like one to make you happy is incredibly cruel.
Just like one girl may enjoy swinging in with her husband, but if that man remarried and married a woman who could never engage in something like that, forcing it on her just to meet his need is incredibly cruel.
If social status and appearances matter to you so much and her modesty does to her too, just walk away. Don't waste her time.
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I am not sure if this is supposed to be a trolling attempt. First off, you have no say in the clothes your girlfriend chooses to wear. That is absolutely none of your business.
By knowing that she is allergic to the sun, you should mind more about her health, rather than her looking sexy for you and your friends.
Anyway, you are not reasonable and you do not respect her. If I was in her position, I'd probably dump you.
u know what? I'm not even gonna take this question seriously. just leave her. like she's got enough to deal with. she doesn't need someone so inconsiderate telling her what to wear.
and this:
"I just really want to show off her body to my friends so they know I scored."
u care about nothing but appearances. you're a dick.
Just break up with her. She deserves to be with a guy who wants her as more than just a trophy or something to show off to friends so you can brag.
Your girlfriend is allergic. You are as reasonable as bitching to your friend about how they are assholes for not trying your grandmother's secret peanut pie recipe when your friend is lethally allergic to peanuts.
You clearly don't respect her anyways, you only have right to be pissed if she doesn't show any skin for you at night in your bedroom. Otherwise, you are absolutely unreasonable in your demand. That, and honestly, do you think she enjoys that she literally CANNOT go to the beach like "any other teen/girl/person" as she would get sick? Or you never really thought about it at all, because you clearly don't care about her at all beyond "scoring in front of your friends". I voted D).
" I just really want to show off her body to my friends so they know I scored "
so your girlfriend is just your trophy to show off to your friend that you are awesome that you can get a girl with nice body? poor girl..
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i voted D!!! you're wrong you shouldn't have say in her wardrobe and have no right to be pissed!! do you think that she's some kind of trophy that you'll just show to your friends? you should be able to understand that she's allergic to the sun!!!
All of the guys that chose D
are a bunch of lying pussys !
They’re bowing to feminist Bullshit!
The girls will never get a real guy.
“You're wrong you shouldn't have say in her wardrobe and have no right to be pissed. “
When you’re a couple, both should always consider the others likes in clothing !
That’s what couple do!
I tell her what I like her to wear and she tells me the same. I like her to enjoy the way I dress.
It’s Imperative that both try keep each other excited.My best friend is allergic to the sun, and she wears the same clothes. YOU SHOULD LOVE YOUR GIRLFRIEND FOR HER PERSONALITY FOR THE MOST PART! Maybe tell her while your inside or at night, "Hey i'd like to see some skin sometime."
"Show off your girl"? What kind of guy are you? I would dump you right away if you had that attitude. You should have lots of sympathy for her, it's probably really hot wearing all that in the summer...
Many people missed the point, and asker should have worded this better, that even "at night or even indoors", she doesn't.
I voted B. Asker is allowed to be pissed in this situation.
If you people would actually read the fucking question. I see this all the time. People just answer based off the title and maybe the first couple of sentences.find a girlfriend who shows more skin if its that important to you. you sound crazy getting mad at her for not wearing what you want.
Stop being a fucking douchebag. She is ALLERGIC TO THE BLOODY SUN and you're pissed because you can't "show off her body to my friends so they know [you] scored"? No, you're not allowed to be pissed. I hope you become allergic to the sun.
Also, leave her. Not because she's not dressing revealing enough, but because you don't fucking deserve her.She has an allergy to the sun... so you want her to go outside and have her skin damaged because you want to show her off... right... that makes tons of sense.
Of course you should be pissed, your bragging rights are much more important than her health and safety after all.
"... just really want to show off her body to my friends so they know I scored."
Come on, man.
Anyway, I was going to say she doesn't have to cover up in her house, lol.A girlfriend is supposed to be someone you love not a trophy to be paraded in front of your friends.
You want her to show more skin so you can show her body off to your friends? You're disgusting and disrespectful and she deserves better than you. Her body isn't for your friends to be ogling at! You're treating her like an object.
Lol you want your girlfriend to be dressed like a hoe? Whats the problem here? You sound ridiculous
Take her somewhere it's hot, like say "let's go for a walk" on a beautiful day or something. Then she won't be able to wear long sleeves right?
Ooo where can I find these women that cover up completely I'd be very interested to know
Are other guys really this thoughtless?
You should not be so selfish. Just ask her if she can do all of that indoor for you dummy.
U want her to risk her health to appease you?
I hope you're just trolling
Grow up boy!
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