What is more difficult for you?
looking into someone’s eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someone’s eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
- Harvey D
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Looking into some one's eyes in general is not really something I feel comfortable doing unless I am very close with them (at least not for any real length of time... nothing more than three seconds if I had to make a guess at the actual timing); however, I feel captivated when some one is really opening up to me. I feel it is only respectful to make as much eye contact as they make with me... to let them know I am paying attention. If they seem unnerved by it I will break eye contact, but in general if some one is telling me how they feel I will keep eye contact, even though it is something I wouldn't normally do (and I never really look at some one when I am telling them how I feel... not even once... my eyes are usually on the floor or fiddling with a tissue I have likely been crying into >_> ).
Interesting question by the way :)1