What are some signs a guy may be interested in a girl? There's this guy that I like and he is aware that I like him, but he tends to be pretty shy and quiet. We talk at work often, he sits next to me on breaks, we text back and forth, and we hang out from time to time. I will catch him looking at me and making eye contact, and he sometimes smiles big or just gives a subtle half smile. I think he still might be hung up on his ex girlfriend though. They didn't date too long at all and she broke up with him in September. I just don't know if he isn't fully allowing himself to get any closer with me because of that or what. He's seen other guys hit on me when we go out with friends for a few drinks and he's seen me turn them down because I like him. So guys, how do you show a girl you like her or are interested in her?
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Depends very much on the guy and his style. A lot of guys will like a girl but fear rejection so he might not take it any further unless he knows for sure you are interested. Obvious signs are things like: wanting to be round you generally, making excuses to see you and similar things are a good indicator he feels you are worth getting to know.
Then there's little things like just grabbing your arm, or touching you briefly, again these little brushes are just attempts to show you that he is there and is tempted to take things further. He might be a little flirty in his texts.
A good way to tell the way he feels is to see the way he acts around other girls. Is it any different to you? If so then there's a chance he might be interested.2